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What to Write in a Birthday Card

Cards have more room than a text and get kept far longer, which means they deserve more than "happy birthday, love from me". The ten messages below are written at card length — three or four lines, enough to fill the space properly. The structure underneath will help if you'd rather write your own.

10 Messages for a Card

Drops into every wish below

  1. Happy birthday. I hope this year is kinder than the last and better than you're expecting — and if it isn't, you know where I am. Thanks for being you.

  2. Another year, and I'm still glad it's you I get to know. Wishing you a birthday full of the people you love and a year full of good news.

  3. Happy birthday. I've been thinking about how much you've handled this year, and how well. You deserve a day of doing absolutely nothing useful.

  4. Wishing you the best birthday you've had yet. Thank you for the hundred small kindnesses you probably think nobody noticed — I did.

  5. Happy birthday. You make things easier for everyone around you, usually without being asked. Let somebody do that for you today.

  6. Here's to you: another year older, no less brilliant, and still the person I'd pick out of a crowd. Have a wonderful birthday.

  7. Happy birthday. However this year goes, I'm glad to be somewhere in it. Enjoy every part of today.

  8. Wishing you good health, good company and at least one very good surprise this year. Happy birthday — you've earned all three.

  9. Happy birthday. I hope you get a proper day off, the food you actually want, and no obligations whatsoever.

  10. Same wish as every year, and I mean it every year: everything good, all of it for you. Happy birthday.

A Simple Structure

Four short parts will fill any card without waffle:

Write in pen, and if your handwriting is bad, write slower rather than smaller. Nobody has ever complained about a legible card.

  1. The greeting — their name and "happy birthday".
  2. The specific bit — one memory, one thing you admire, or one thing from this year. This is the part they'll reread.
  3. The wish — what you hope the year brings.
  4. The sign-off — and the date, which matters more than you'd think in ten years.

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Questions

Which side do you write on?

Inside right for the message. Leave the inside left for other people if it's a shared card.

Do I sign my surname?

For family and close friends, no. For colleagues, neighbours or anyone with several people of your first name in their life, yes.