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Birthday Wishes for a Boyfriend

The best boyfriend birthday message usually has one joke and one honest line, in that order. Going straight for the deep declaration can land oddly if it's early days, and going all-jokes can read as though you couldn't be bothered. These ten cover the full range, from a few months in to properly serious.

10 Birthday Wishes for a Boyfriend

Drops into every wish below
  1. Happy birthday to my favourite person to waste an entire day with.

  2. Happy birthday. You're the best part of most of my weeks, and I thought you should know.

  3. Another year older and still the only person whose texts I open immediately. Happy birthday.

  4. Happy birthday. Thanks for being kind, funny and consistently on my side.

  5. You've somehow made ordinary evenings something I look forward to. Happy birthday.

  6. Happy birthday to someone who makes me laugh far more than is reasonable.

  7. I hope you get everything you want this year, starting today. Happy birthday.

  8. Happy birthday. Being with you is the easiest thing I do.

  9. Whatever we end up doing this year, I want to do it with you. Happy birthday.

  10. Happy birthday, my favourite. Love you.

Small Things That Make It Better

Send it at the start of his day rather than the end — a message waiting at 7am reads as thoughtful, one at 9pm reads as remembered. Mention something he's working towards; men are notably under-asked about their goals and it's a good thing to acknowledge on a birthday. And if he's not demonstrative, a short sincere line is more likely to be reread than a long one.

If you're apart, the long-distance collection is written for exactly that.

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Questions

What if it's very new?

Keep it easy and specific: name something you've enjoyed doing together and leave the future out of it.

Should I get a card too?

Yes. Very few people mind receiving a card, and it's the part that survives after the day.